Sometimes, you really need to push yourself to see more possibilities. Those who take the initiative to do difficult things, they must be able to live their own lives.
Last year, on the high-speed train to the airport, I met a guy who was speaking on the subway. On father's day, he came forward and blessed all the passengers in English. Though the boy's voice trembled a little, he could see his heart and his courage.
In every city subway, there should be people who practice their speaking skills in public. To be sure, such people will always be few. Because, for most people, standing in the crowd to break through the self is hard and difficult.
I have some admiration for this young man, who volunteered to add his WeChat. A few days ago, I saw him update his circle of friends, and now he's a training lecturer at a speech school. I was not surprised by the results. Because some people's tongue is like a fast horse, can let him go further. People who always "force" themselves are often able to transcend themselves in self-discipline.
I'm not saying that you have to make some unrealistic decisions, but rather that you should live a life that is "a little hard".
For example, find a job that is higher than your current ability; For example, the pursuit of a girl far away from her; For example, buy a house that is slightly above your ability to pay for it; For example, it's hard for ordinary people to keep up with reading and working out.
It is difficult to do something difficult, because the lower level of life is not worth living. The second reason is that you can get more out of it. Light, can force oneself to grow quickly. Again, when opportunity knocks, you won't miss it.
'there are two things in this world that are the simplest: to spend someone else's money, and to criticize others,' Mr. Zhang said.
In fact, the most difficult thing to do in the world is just the same. One is to try not to spend other people's money, and to live a decent life for yourself. The second is to make yourself uncriticized.
To achieve this, you need to be different from others, and you need to get used to things that are difficult and not always stay in your comfort zone.